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Year of Dancing with Life – Week 10

December 13, 2011
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How Doctors Die

December 13, 2011

In order to learn the art of dying , one must know completely — the art of living. — S. N. Goenka

~~~~ Good News of the Day: “In his last few months of life after discovering that lung cancer had spread into his brain, my older cousin Torch went to Disneyland for the first time, ate his favorite foods, had no serious pain, and remained high-spirited. Torch wasn’t a doctor, but like many doctors who have access to medical care when diagnosed with a fatal disease, he chose state of the art end-of-life care: death with dignity.” This honest reflection by Dr. Ken Murray of USC illuminates why doctors ‘go gentle into that good night’ when confronted with their own death, and how it is possible for all to spend the last moments of life in peace and in the presence of others. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169FB0D:C3009629A010612C14C667BEAB2C17D3B4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: How would fear influence you in ‘going gently’? Practice the art of living today.

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InnerNet Weekly: Everyday Creativity

December 13, 2011
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Everyday Creativity
by Ruth Richards

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778.jpgI’m rather good at maps. I’m also good at using a GPS device. But I forgot the maps and here we were, late afternoon, last day of vacation, my daughter my cousin and I, driving along a two-lane highway in midstate Oregon. No other car in sight, and the sun had just gone down. Where was that charming little village? It was supposed to be right along this river. We drove on, farther and farther into the unknown, river always at left as our guide. We kept passing farms and fields and scattered houses and now a few lights were coming out. In my head, I was doing a litany of self-criticism: Why didn’t we start earlier, leave more time, have lunch sooner, save dessert for the little town, bring the map, and on and on and on, a list of all we did wrong — reliving it as if that could help us now. My cousin and I were

both impatient and stressed. My daughter, at least, was happy in the back seat, text messaging a friend. I pull up on the shoulder of the road to think.

Just then — WOW! Amazing! A new scene had appeared. A new slide projected on a screen. Where did it come from?

Look! LOOK! I insisted. Even my daughter looked up. Right there, out of nowhere: a magical misty landscape. Fields moving off to infinity in muted purples and pastels, fuzzy in the haze, with clusters of tall lush tress, darkening and receding in the dusk. I turned the car engine off. All was silent in the hot summer air. Beside
us a plum-colored river barely moved between a border of trees, its dark lazy water reflecting the last light of day.

How breathtaking! This landscape had cast a spell. We sat in the silence of an indrawn breath. Where had it been? If I had seen even a trace of this beauty while driving along, not a neuron had registered it, no mental bell had rung so that the conscious mind could stop and take a look. I had missed it all. We had all missed it.

We miss a lot, almost everything, in fact, in our world. Our task-focused filters take care of that, selecting only what we need. We need to get to work. Have some lunch. Find that report. Water the garden. Go out on a date. We see what we need to see, often for purposes of survival — or survival of the species. Gregory Bateson, speaking of beauty, said aesthetic judgment is selection of a fact. We create the sight even as we become conscious of it. We do not simply see it. In our daily lives, who or what is doing the selecting? And why? Is this predetermined? Can we — in the here and now – make a change? Can we see further? Can we see better? Can we even better our world?

Opening our vision is a first step in Everyday Creativity.

–Ruth Richards, in Everyday Creativity

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Kindness Daily: Just 1 Card To Say Happy Birthday…

December 12, 2011
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Just 1 Card To Say Happy Birthday… December 12, 2011 – Posted by crosby2126
I have a Aunt who is deaf and lives alone. To communicate with her when we visit we write in her notebook. Her birthday is in March.

Last year she was 96 years old. I thought about things I could get her but aside from food there isn’t much she needs. So, I decided to I send emails out to a few friends. I told everyone about my Aunt and asked them if they could please take a few minutes and help celebrate her birthday by sending a card to her.

Little did I know how this one request would impact so many, especially my Aunt! My friends asked their own friends to join in. The cards started arriving every day for a month!! My Aunt was so excited! She couldn’t believe so many people were thinking about her. She recieved over 50 cards!

Something so little, that takes just a few minutes to do, ment the world to her. Many peoples lives have been touched by this gesture, not only my Aunt’s. A card really does say it all. Here we are approaching March… her birthday is here … I can’t wait to send out that email….My Aunt is going to be 97 on March 13th.

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The 9 Dwarves: A Legend of Conservation

December 12, 2011

We abuse the land because we regard it as a commodity belonging to us. When we see land as a community to which we belong, we may begin to use it with love and respect. — Aldo Leopold

~~~~ Good News of the Day: With multinational companies accelerating exploitation of oil, timber and minerals, activist Ladislas Desire Ndembet decided that he had to supply a stronger local voice in the West African nation of Gabon. Financed out of his own modest salary from running a cleaning business on the side, Ndembet’s NGO is an inspired movement to conserve some of the world’s largest intact tropical rainforests for carbon capture and endangered species protection. Environmental journalist Daniel Glick gives an intriguing glimpse into Ndembet’s conservation efforts, starting with Gabon’s legend of the nine dwarves. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169F71D:C3009629A010612C49A93BB5B91A8038B4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: Make an increasing shift from interacting with natural resources as commodities, to using them with love and respect.

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The Library Rethought

December 11, 2011

A library, to modify the famous metaphor of Socrates, should be the delivery room for the birth of ideas — a place where history comes to life. — Norman Cousins

~~~~ Good News of the Day: Libraries have a special place in history as a hearth of culture that kindled the greatest feats of science and the grandest works of art. Yet today, they’re in danger of being left precisely there — in history. As our collective use of libraries dwindles in the digital age, five brave efforts are innovating the concept of “the library” in ways that make it as culturally relevant today as it ever was. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169F6E6:C3009629A010612C2ED8F2160E2FAE61B4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: This week, visit the library, or a reimagined version of it.

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Kindness Daily: Fierce Love

December 10, 2011
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Fierce Love December 10, 2011 – Posted by Sajha
Sometimes kindness has a ferocious beginning.

My dear friend Michael stood in line at a grocery store. In the next line a mother had lost her temper with her screaming three year old sitting in the cart seat. To everyone’s shock the woman began slapping the little boy’s face. Michael (a therapist) turned to her and commanded, "Stop!" The woman jerked, as if from a trance and buried her face in her hands as she began to sob. Michael took her in his arms and held her as she cried. Then he comforted the little boy. The woman thanked him and tearfully told him about the tremendous stress she was experiencing in her life. Michael encouraged her and gave her a card to an excellent family therapist that he knew. Through her tears the mother apologized to to her little boy and hugged him and promised that she would make an appointment with the therapist.

I think most of us, at our worst, would benefit from someone stepping in to help us regain our bearings.

Michael is gone now, but the Love that he shared so generously in life continues on, rippling from those he touched to others.

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What a 10-Year-Old Did for the Tar Sands

December 10, 2011

No one has yet fully realized the wealth of sympathy, kindness and generosity hidden in the soul of a child. — Emma Goldman

~~~~ Good News of the Day: 10-yr-old Ta’Kaiya Blaney stood outside Enbridge Northern Gateway’s office on July 6, waiting for officials to grant her access to the building. She thought she could hand deliver an envelope containing an important message about the company’s pipeline construction. But the doors remained locked. “I don’t know what they find so scary about me,” she said, as she was ushered off the property by security guards. “I just want them to hear what I have to say.” The Sliammon First Nation youth put in a great effort learning about environmental issues and the pipeline in particular, and hoped to share her knowledge and carefully crafted words. Enbridge officials said they were unable to provide Ta’Kaiya space or time and failed to comment. So Ta’Kaiya stood outside, accompanied by three members of Greenpeace, her mother, and a number of reporters and sang her hauntingly beautiful song, “Shallow Waters.”
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Dalai Lama Quote from Snow Lion Publications

December 9, 2011

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–Shantideva, A Guide to the Bodhisattva Way of Life

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Kindness Daily: Who’s Packing Your Parachute?

December 9, 2011
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Who’s Packing Your Parachute? December 9, 2011 – Posted by arthurhen
Charles Plumb, a U.S. Naval Academy graduate, who was a jet pilot during the Vietnam War. After seventy-five combat missions, his plane was destroyed by a surface-to-air missile. Plumb safely ejected and parachuted into enemy territory. He was captured and spent six years in a Communist Vietnamese prison. He survived the ordeal and now lectures on the lessons he learned from that experience.

One day, when Plumb and his wife were sitting in a restaurant, a man at another table came up and said, "You’re Plumb! You flew jet fighters in Vietnam from the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down!"

Somewhat surprised, Plumb asked, "How in the world did you know that?

The man replied, "I packed your parachute."

Plumb gasped in surprise and gratitude. The man pumped his hand and said, "I guess it worked."

"It sure did. If the chute you packed hadn’t worked, I wouldn’t be here today!" Plumb responded.

Plumb couldn’t sleep that night, thinking about that man. He says, "I kept wondering what he might have looked like in a navy uniform: a white hat, a bib in the back, and bell-bottom trousers. I wonder how many times I might have seen him and not even said good morning, how are you, or anything else, because, you see, I was a fighter pilot, and he was just a sailor."

Today when Plumb speaks professionally, he asks audiences, "Who’s packing your parachute?"

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