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Who Are You Really Mad At?

August 7, 2012
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Who Are You Really Mad At?

If we live truly, we shall see truly

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Who Are You Really Mad At?

A father yells at his son who then hits his sister. A boss gets upset at a manager who then yells at their employees. In both obvious and subtle forms, people often do or say something to someone when it’s really intended for someone else. In this honest self-reflection, leadership expert Peter Bregman looks more deeply at his own behaviour to discover freedom from habits and the choice of more thoughtful, productive responses. { read more }

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InnerNet Weekly: Unattainable Goal of Peace

August 7, 2012
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Unattainable Goal of Peace
by Aung San Suu Kyi

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The peace of our world is indivisible. As long as negative forces are getting the better of positive forces anywhere, we are all at risk. It may be questioned whether all negative forces could ever be removed. The simple answer is: ‘No!’ It is in human nature to contain both the positive and the negative. However, it is also within human capability to work to reinforce the positive and to minimize or neutralize the negative. Absolute peace in our world is an unattainable goal. But it is one towards which we must continue to journey, our eyes fixed on it as a traveler in a desert fixes his eyes on the one guiding star that will lead him to salvation. Even if we do not achieve perfect peace on earth, because perfect peace is not of this earth, common endeavors to gain peace will unite individuals and nations in trust and friendship and help to make our human community safer and kinder.

I used the word ‘kinder’ after careful deliberation; I might say the careful deliberation of many years. Of the sweets of adversity, and let me say that these are not numerous, I have found the sweetest, the most precious of all, is the lesson I learned on the value of kindness. Every kindness I received, small or big, convinced me that there could never be enough of it in our world. To be kind is to respond with sensitivity and human warmth to the hopes and needs of others. Even the briefest touch of kindness can lighten a heavy heart. Kindness can change the lives of people. […]

Ultimately our aim should be to create a world free from the displaced, the homeless and the hopeless, a world of which each and every corner is a true sanctuary where the inhabitants will have the freedom and the capacity to live in peace. Every thought, every word, and every action that adds to the positive and the wholesome is a contribution to peace. Each and every one of us is capable of making such a contribution. Let us join hands to try to create a peaceful world where we can sleep in security and wake in happiness.

–Aung San Suu Kyi, on receiving the Nobel Peace Prize in 2012

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Can you share a personal story where your endeavor to gain peace united you with others in bonds of friendship and trust? What does being kinder mean to you? How do you sustain your journey toward absolute peace despite setbacks?
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Conrad P Pritscher wrote: Beautiful statement. Being kinder means everything to me. There is nothing more important than being kind. Accepting my not being kinder more frequently is being kinder to myself. &nb…
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Year of Dancing with Life – Week 44

August 7, 2012
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Quote of the Week | Devote Yourself

August 6, 2012

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August 6, 2012

DEVOTE YOURSELF

Devote yourself to your spiritual friend, obeying his words with the sense of being like a servant. Devote yourself to your spiritual friend with the sense of being like a garment that gently covers the skin. Devote yourself to your spiritual mentor with a sense of being like a sweeper who has abandoned pride. Devote yourself to your spiritual mentor with a sense of being like a bull with his horns cut off and who has abandoned conceit.

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A Brief History of Timekeeping

August 6, 2012
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A Brief History of Timekeeping

To be human is to be aware of the passage of time; no concept lies closer to the core of our consciousness.

– Dan Falk –

A Brief History of Timekeeping

“For millennia, humans have sought to make sense of time, to visualize it, to ride its arrow, to hack it, to understand biological connection to it. ‘Time is the very foundation of conscious experience,’ writes Dan Falk in ‘In Search of Time: The History, Physics, and Philosophy of Time.’ And yet that awareness has a long history of friction — to mark and measure the passage of time has proven remarkably challenging. For instance, Falk traces the evolution of the calendar, our dominant system for collectively experiencing time.” { read more }

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A short passage on time-shifting, which “recognizes that every single moment has a particular rhythm to it, and that we have the capacity to expand or contract an individual moment as appropriate.” { more }

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Freed: Cat With Head Trapped in Jar for 6 Days

August 5, 2012
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Freed: Cat With Head Trapped in Jar for 6 Days

Mankind’s true moral test, its fundamental test (which lies deeply buried from view), consists of its attitude towards those who are at its mercy: animals.

– Milan Kundera –

Freed: Cat With Head Trapped in Jar for 6 Days

“I feel like I have experienced a truly blessed event. A member of my feral colony, usually one of the friendlier cats, got a plastic jar stuck on his head. His entire head enveloped in hard plastic, he was completely unable to eat or drink. I first saw him this way on a Saturday night. I spent hours trying to get him to trust me to get close enough so that I could remove the jar. But, completely vulnerable and positively panicked, the cat was far too skittish to permit me to get near.” A real-world story of the rescue of a starving cat whose head had been trapped in a jar for 6 days. { read more }

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Kindness Daily: Turning Grief Into Giving

August 4, 2012
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Turning Grief Into Giving August 4, 2012 – Posted by gmatorie
Twenty years ago I lost my son.

My friends decided that I needed to get out at least once a week and so we started going for coffee. Those friends helped me get through that terrible first year and still continue to help me.

We decided that we would try and help people when we could. So, we take a collection each week and then decide what to do with it. We have paid for breakfasts, helped an elderly man fill his oil tank, bought Christmas gifts for needy families , helped fire victims, and sometimes just sent flowers to someone who was feeling blue.

We usually do this in a way that no one knows and that makes it even better.

We also have a yearly tea at my house the first Saturday in December to start the Christmas season. We have been Secret Santa to three people and each year we try and do something special for someone.

I am thankful for my friends and we just want to pay it forward.

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A Conspiracy of Love: Stanford Graduation Speech

August 4, 2012
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A Conspiracy of Love: Stanford Graduation Speech

In life, it is never the big battle, the big moment, the big speech, the big election. That does not change things. What changes things is every day, getting up and rendering small acts of service and love beyond that what’s expected of you or required of you.

– Cory Booker –

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In these video excerpts, charismatic Newark Mayor, Cory Booker, reminds Stanford graduates that their success is the product of a vast “conspiracy of love,” and challenges all of us to engage in the conspiratorial caring that makes our society safe, strong, and ennobling. A clear and compelling message, and one of the most articulate and inspired commencement speeches of recent times. { read more }

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Quote of the Week | Altruism and Inner Peace

August 3, 2012

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ALTRUISM AND INNER PEACE

We humans are social beings. We come into the world as the result of others’ actions. We survive here in dependence on others. Whether we like it or not, there is hardly a moment of our lives in which we do not benefit from others’ activities. For this reason it is hardly surprising that most of our happiness arises in the context of our relationships with others. Nor is it so remarkable that our greatest joy should come when we are motivated by concern for others. But that is not all. We find that not only do altruistic actions bring about happiness, but they also lessen our experience of suffering. Here I am not suggesting that the individual whose actions are motivated by the wish to bring others happiness necessarily meets with less misfortune than the one who does not. Sickness, old age, mishaps of one sort or another are the same for us all. But the sufferings which undermine our internal peace—anxiety, doubt, disappointment—these are definitely less.

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Video of the Week: The Story of Change

August 3, 2012
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It’s not easy to change a dysfunctional system that puts corporate profits above the health and happiness of people. It takes more than just “voting with our pocketbooks”; it takes political involvement. In her latest film, Annie Leonard gives us a simple formula for social transformation: CHANGE = a big idea + collective identity + action.
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