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Kindness Daily: Kind Strangers in Her Story

April 24, 2012
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Kind Strangers in Her Story April 24, 2012 – Posted by smile2day
I am in the habit of giving money to every beggar/homeless person I pass. My friends say it is not good to encourage begging and that all beggars have some measure of money to survive. It annoys them that I never listen :-).

One day, my friend and I were walking to the bus stop when I passed a beggar lady. I had seen her several times before and had always given her a few cents. That day, I gave her 2 Euros. I was waiting for the bus and reading a book when I looked up to see

that lady standing in front of me. She handed me a piece of paper covered in cling-film, to make it waterproof. It said she and her family had to leave their country because of floods, and she was struggling to support them. She had got a bit of money, but she needed 5 Euros to get home. I fished in my pockets and found 20 cents. My friend flourished a 5 Euro note. I asked her to give it to the lady, and said that I would pay her back the next day. When she did, the lady hugged us and blessed us, and went on her way.

Only later, in the bus, I wondered where her home was and how she had gotten to this country. But I didn’t wonder much. Her story was her story, but I felt that my friend and I would always remain part of it, as the strangers, who helped her get home an a rainy day.
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What the Internet Does to Your Brain

April 24, 2012

Once I was a scuba diver in the sea of words. Now I zip along the surface like a guy on a Jet Ski. — Nicholas Carr

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“Inherent in any media technology — from the telephone to TV to Twitter — is an emphasis of some ways of thinking and a de-emphasis on other ways of thinking. If you look at the Internet, what it emphasizes is the ability to supply lots of information, in many forms, very quickly. As a result, it encourages us to browse through information in a similar way — by grabbing lots of bits of data simultaneously. What it doesn’t encourage us to engage in is more attentive ways of thinking — the mode of thinking that underpins deep reading, contemplation, reflection and introspection. All of these ways of using our minds — which to me, are very important.” In this interview, Pulitzer-Prize nominee Nicholas Carr discusses the inherent ‘shallowness’ of Web 2.0 technologies, and the troubling consequences for our brains.
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InnerNet Weekly: Why Can’t We Tolerate Emptiness?

April 24, 2012
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Why Can’t We Tolerate Emptiness?
by Natasha Dem

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Why is it so hard for us to tolerate emptiness in our minds? The prevalent belief that action always equals progress may be a contributing factor. We perceive emptiness as an undesired state, something to be feared. We feel uncomfortable with those moments when our minds seem devoid of any creative or productive activity. We rarely, if ever, simply sit with and allow the feeling of emptiness.

When a thought enters the mind, it is replaced by another. It is automatic. We are not aware that a thought has segued into another thought. But upon developing the muscles of concentration, we become conscious of the entry and exit process of our thoughts. The mind gradually begins to entertain fewer thoughts per minute. We become aware that there is an interval, a delay, a space between one thought and another. This space is emptiness but also a fullness. At this level of awareness, we are in the sanctum of pure awareness. There are many who are living in this state of pure awareness, and their experiences are lucid and real.

Many are in search of this state, whether they know it or not. We are wired to seek and find what we seek. This quest is as old as humanity itself. There is no need to spend time and energy seeking some illusory “self.” What you are seeking is inside of you, and it is you. It is the mind that asserts otherwise.
When you believe this mind, you seek this “I” outside yourself. All one has to do is to remain quiet, calm the mind and experience this space between the thoughts. In this state, only the “I” exists. When you let this “I” in your mind be, without resisting, you enter the realm of emptiness — pure consciousness or the creative void. Whatever comes up, do not take it personally. Just observe. Allowing your mind to “go blank” for a little while won’t kill you, and will actually help you discover your potential, unlimited.

Now developing some comfort with this state is both simple and complex in concept. Since we are slaves to stimuli, we can’t imagine harnessing such a practice of emptiness or of being. We are incessantly tempted to turn our attention to something just to avoid this sensation. Blankness is not nothingness. To be empty does not mean non-existence. Emptiness is the ground of being, and because of it, everything is possible.

When the ego cooperates in suspension of all sense impressions and thoughts, it enters the realm of empty, unnameable nothingness. This nothingness is the gateway into the deeper layers of consciousness. It is here where inspiration, knowledge and creativity will ultimately strike.

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Year of Dancing with Life – Week 29

April 24, 2012
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Neuroplasticity: Changing our Belief about Change

April 23, 2012

People don’t resist change. They resist being changed! — Peter Senge

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“A dangerous belief in our culture is that we can’t change. We’ve all heard the disempowered statements: ‘He’s just grumpy. He can’t change that.’ or ‘I will always be anxious. It’s the way I was born.’ While we most certainly have genetic predispositions, the brains of individuals’ young and old can change in amazing ways. Neuroplasticity is a fancy way of saying that our brains can change. We are not victims of our neurons or genes. We are empowered creators of our mental states. The erroneous belief that we are ‘set in stone’ can stop people from trying to change and take away their responsibility. In the same way that germ theory altered the way we look at sanitation and hygiene, I think that spreading the knowledge about our brain’s ability to change can alter the way our culture approaches emotions, attitudes, and values.
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“Change is difficult for all of us. The older we get, the more change we face. …” So starts a short “Letter to my Grandson” by the celebrated family therapist Daniel Gottlieb:
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How To Find Your Purpose

April 22, 2012

The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. — Steve Jobs

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“‘Find something more important than you are,’ philosopher Dan Dennett once said in discussing the secret of happiness,’and dedicate your life to it.’ But how, exactly, do we find that? Surely, it isn’t by luck. I myself am a firm believer in the power of curiosity and choice as the engine of fulfillment, but precisely how you arrive at your true calling is an intricate and highly individual dance of discovery. Still, there are certain factors — certain choices — that make it easier. Gathered here are insights from seven thinkers who have contemplated the art-science of making your life’s calling a living.”
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“What is the song that I came to sing? Maybe I’ve been a part of the symphony all along, and everyone around me has heard every word — except me.” A wonderful reflection:
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Kindness Daily: An Surprise Gift

April 21, 2012
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An Surprise Gift April 21, 2012 – Posted by cappjoc99
Last week I went to a different grocery store than usual, just to check it out. The person in front of me at the checkout was pregnant and purchasing a couple of containers of milk. No big deal, she would be done quickly and I could be on my way. Her method of payment was a WIC card and it kept telling her that it wasn’t working. A manager came over and told her to come to a different register, maybe this one was the problem. After I checked out, I noticed she was still there, trying to get her card to work.

It was obvious that the young woman was getting anxious about the purchase so I offered to pay for her purchase. She was shocked that I had even offered and very humbly accepted. She thanked me and I went on my way with a smile from her.

Everyone needs a helping hand sometimes and you never know when it will be your turn. Today I found that it was indeed my turn.

I went kayaking north of the city. It was a very hot, sunny day so I brought a large container of sports drink, figuring it would be plenty to drink. I underestimated the drain the heat and humidity would have on me. Before I got back to shore, I realized that I had finished the bottle. I still had to get back, load the boat on the car, and it would be at least a 10 minute drive to somewhere to buy more to drink.

When I got back to shore and managed to drag my boat to the car and get it strapped down, I was very hot and thirsty. Seeing a water fountain, I figured my problem was solved… but it wasn’t working at all. So, I swallowed my pride and asked a family picnicking near by if they had an extra bottle of water, which they gladly gave me. That bottle of water wasn’t a big deal to them, but it made all the difference to me.

The little things that can be done for others don’t usually seem significant to the people doing them, but it can be huge to the receivers. Thank you to all the joyful givers who don’t think twice about helping others!

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What’s the Greatest Gift Your Mother Gave You?

April 21, 2012

The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence. — Denis Waitley

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“The way her face absolutely beams when she sees me and her voice lightens with happiness when I call her on the phone. Every time. Even after 38 years,” says Kristen Harnisch. “My mother always had a sense of wonderment. The color of a leaf, a sprinkling of snow, the smell of hot soup–she found the greatest pleasure in everyday things,” Nancy Bradford reflects. “When I was two days old, I was abandoned on a sidewalk in Seoul, South Korea. My mother adopted me and raised me in a home full of love. What did she give me? My whole life,” declares Tara Robbins Fee. In this moving compilation of voices from all over, dozens of readers of Real Simple magazine reflect on the tangible and intangible gifts they’ve received from their mothers.
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What’s the greatest gift you’ve received from your own mother? Share your answer with readers here.
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Dalai Lama Quote from Snow Lion Publications

April 20, 2012
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The crazy elephant of the mind behaving wildly
Is tied to the pillar of an object of observation
With the rope of mindfulness.
By degrees it is brought under control with the hook of wisdom.

–Bhavaviveka

“Wisdom” here is introspection. Hence, the example of taming an elephant indicates the achievement of a serviceable mind by way of the two–mindfulness and introspection. The subtle vajra that is the base on which the mind is being set is like a stable pillar to which an elephant is tied. The unserviceable mind is like an untamed elephant. Causing the mind not to be distracted from its object of observation through relying on mindfulness is like using a rope to tie an elephant. Setting the mind free from fault–when it does not hold the object of observation as originally set–through immediately recognizing such by means of introspection is like a herder’s hitting an elephant with a hook and correcting it when it strays from the tie-up.

Hence, there are two important factors with regard to holding the mind:
– From the beginning, stay on the object of observation without being distracted to anything other than it.
– Then if distracted, immediately recognize such, and again focus the mind as before.(p.94)

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Video of the Week: The Most Astounding Fact

April 20, 2012
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Astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson tells us what astonishes him most about our universe: that the atoms comprising our bodies are literally made of star-dust. “So that when I look up at the night sky and I know that yes, we are part of this universe, we are in this universe, but perhaps more important than both of those facts is that the universe is in us,” he says. “There is a level of connectivity” – which is what most of us want in life: to feel connected, relevant.
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