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Lessons Learned from Writing Love Letters to Strangers

October 31, 2012
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Lessons Learned from Writing Love Letters to Strangers

Try to make at least one person happy every day. If you cannot do a kind deed, speak a kind word. If you cannot speak a kind word, think a kind thought.

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Lessons Learned from Writing Love Letters to Strangers

“I began leaving love letters all over New York City for strangers to find nearly two years ago. Though the idea sounds romantic, it was really a way to forget about my own feelings of sadness and loneliness for a while and focus on others in the big city who may have been feeling as let down as me. Every morning since that first love letter, I’ve pinned my cursive to writing and mailing love letters to people all over the world, packed with words that hopefully will help, heal, and hold them during a tough time. With every stroke of the pen and sealing of the envelope, I’ve gathered life lessons that I know will never leave me no matter where my letters go.” Hannah Brencher founder of The World Needs More Love Letters shares more. { read more }

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Kindness Daily: Apple Pie And Cream

October 30, 2012
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Apple Pie And Cream October 30, 2012 – Posted by MissChatterbox
Leaving the supermarket earlier today I saw an elderly man with mobility problems. He was struggling to open the boot/trunk of his car and it was starting to rain.

I offered to help get his shopping into the car. He thanked me for the offer but insisted he was fine and said that if he didn’t do things himself they just wouldn’t get done as he has no one else to do them.

I didn’t like to push the point in case I offended him so I put my son in the car and packed my own shopping away. Then I took an apple pie & cream over to his car and asked if he would like it. His face lit up and he said he loved apple pie. So, I gave it to him.

He was very surprised and wanted to know why. I joked that he hadn’t let me help him with his shopping, so I had to think of something else! I felt so happy as I drove home and hope he really enjoyed his apple pie and cream.

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When I Walk: A Filmmaker’s Journey with MS

October 30, 2012
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When I Walk: A Filmmaker's Journey with MS

The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives.

– Anthony Robbins –

When I Walk: A Filmmaker’s Journey with MS

30-year-old Jason DaSilva has worked as a filmmaker for ten years. His work has been screened at Sundance, on PBS, HBO, and came close to receiving an Academy Award nomination. Currently Jason is the director and star of an unusual documentary titled, “When I Walk”. The film documents his journey with Multiple Sclerosis. In Jason’s own words it,”provides information and inspiration to those affected by MS and their supporters, and gives a wider audience a unique insight into what happens when a person faces the challenge of living with a disabling chronic illness — while pursuing an artistic career and a busy, wonderful, full life.” { read more }

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InnerNet Weekly: A Servant Leader

October 30, 2012
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A Servant Leader
by Vinoba Bhave

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902.jpg To progress, society doesn’t need ‘leaders’ anymore. This doesn’t mean that we won’t have great men amidst us. I think great men will come and they will be vital for progress of humanity, but they will be so great that they will refuse to take up this position of leadership. People will not follow the great men, but will listen to their thoughts, philosophies and views and through their sharing, society will find its way forward.

Take a look at the Bhoodan (Land Gift) Movement, for example. Because it was entirely executed while walking, there was never any centralized leadership. If you think about it, the Buddha too, walked on foot for thousands of kilometres with a few simple thoughts. Yet, because those thoughts were worthy, and he lived in complete harmony with those thoughts, they have spread across the world and are valid even two and a half millennia later.

Any change, any revolution for the people always occurs in one place, but the winds carry them far and wide. Similarly, because we walk, the leadership that is created is always local. In fact, I would like to restate it and say that we aren’t creating local leaders, but local servants.

When we approach people as their servants, we appeal to their hearts and they are moved to gift land to their brothers. In fact, our real strength lies in the fact that we are servants. The divinity in each and every person can be witnessed and reached, only when you approach them as a faithful servant.

Think of how the various organs and limbs come together as servants to our body. If somebody tries to strike your head, the hand comes forth to protect it. It does not do so out of an expectation or out of fear. It does it because it sees itself as part of the whole and therefore works out of a sense of duty.

When we will all see our role in society as servants, we will all light up the sky together like countless stars on a dark night. Don’t think of society as the sky on a full moon night. The moon’s harsh light blinds us to the true and humble work of the stars. But on a moonless night, the true servants shine forth, as though they are connected invisibly in this vast and infinite cosmos.

–Vinoba Bhave

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Conrad P. Pritscher wrote: Thank you for the opportunity to respond. The words "servant" and "leader" have connotations that may at times distort what is. Vinoba beautifully stated that the…
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Quote of the Week | Unconditional Love

October 29, 2012

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Dharma Quote of the Week
October 29, 2012

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

Attachment and love are similar in that both of them draw us to the other person. But in fact, these two emotions are quite different. When we’re attached we’re drawn to someone because he or she meets our needs. In addition, there are lots of strings attached to our affection that we may or may not realize are there. For example, I “love” you because you make me feel good. I “love” you as long as you do things that I approve of. I “love” you because you’re mine. You’re my spouse or my child or my parent or my friend. With attachment, we go up and down like a yo-yo, depending on how the other person treats us. We obsess, “What do they think of me? Do they love me? Have I offended them? How can I become what they want me to be so that they love me even more?” It’s not very peaceful, is it? We’re definitely stirred up.

On the other hand, the love we’re generating on the Dharma path is unconditional. We simply want other to have happiness and the causes of happiness without any strings attached, without any expectations of what these people will do for us or how good they’ll make us feel.

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Jacob Needleman: Probing Higher Intelligence

October 29, 2012
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Jacob Needleman: Probing Higher Intelligence

Rivers, ponds, lakes and streams – they all have different names, but they all contain water. Just as religions do — they all contain truths.

– Muhammad Ali –

Jacob Needleman: Probing Higher Intelligence

Renowned writer and philosopher, Jacob Needleman, talks about his life: “I began to feel, without knowing how to say it, that when I was looking at a grasshopper or a frog, I was looking at a great idea. The ideas were like living beings! And the living beings were ideas! And so I wanted to go into this field. I wanted to be a philosopher.” Further on in this interview, he says, “No matter how many explanations you make of how things work mechanically, there’s no explanation, really, about why? And there’s no explanation, really, about how? I’m just not impressed by the belief that the brilliance of science means we can conclude that there’s no higher intelligence in the universe.” { read more }

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Lessons in the Old Language

October 28, 2012
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Lessons in the Old Language

Speak from the heart and the truth will be shown.

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“90% of the world’s languages are dying and will be gone within decades, displaced by the cold, placeless tongues of global commerce and colonization. Millions of voices…are going silent and with them the local wisdom borne of millennia of intimate and sustainable communion with place extinguished. The very fabric of life on the planet is also under siege by the same forces. The problem of endangered languages and cultures is, thus, everyone’s problem. To paraphrase the great Japanese poet Issei, “if we look carefully into the dragonfly’s eye, we can see the mountain behind our shoulder.” { read more }

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Kindness Daily: At a Bus Stop with Popcorn

October 27, 2012
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At a Bus Stop with Popcorn October 27, 2012 – Posted by takuhi
I was living in São Paulo, Brazil.

It is a HUGE city, with more people living in it than in my whole country (Hungary, which has a population of 10 million). We rented a flat in a gated community, but there was a favela (shanty town) quite near.

For several months I didn’t have a car, so three times a week, I used public transportation to go to the city centre. During these trips, I would ride with the people who took the same bus from the favela to go to work.

When I got on the bus, all the seats were already taken. But when people saw that my bag was heavy (full of books), they offered to hold it in their lap, to make me feel lighter standing. At first, I was shocked. Then I realized that these people had absolutely no intention to steal from me: they only wanted to help.

Once, on my way back, I had to wait for a long time at a bus stop. I was alone, except for a woman who was apparently very poor. She carried a small paper bag of popcorn and nothing else.

While we were waiting, she walked over and offered me some popcorn. I thanked her, but didn’t want to help myself to it. She then repeatedly insisted that I take from what was evidently her only food.

That was the first time I thought about how people who have almost nothing, are sometimes able to share the little they have so much more "easily" than those who own a lot. I wonder if it’s true that the more you have, the bigger the burden, and the difficulty to share anythingwith others.

I was so moved by that woman’s simple generosity that day. I clearly had more than she did, but she naturally and joyfully shared what little she had with me nevertheless.

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One Hat, One Heart

October 27, 2012
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One Hat, One Heart

I feel the capacity to care is the thing which gives life its deepest significance.

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Seeds of Light is the humanitarian service arm of CoreLight, an international non-profit organization practicing “love-in-action.” One Hat One Heart is a project that provides handmade, warm winter hats to orphans and vulnerable children in Mpumalanga, South Africa. These hats are the medium through which joy and open-heartedness are being expressed. This short video on their work demonstrates what’s possible through love. { read more }

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Quote of the Week | Cultivate a Compassionate Mind

October 26, 2012

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CULTIVATE A COMPASSIONATE MIND

The fundamental teaching of the Buddha is that we should view others as being more important than we are. Of course, you cannot completely ignore yourself. But neither can you neglect the welfare of other people and other sentient beings, particularly when there is a clash of interest between your own welfare and the welfare of other people. At such a time you should consider other people’s welfare as more important than your own personal well-being. Compare yourself to the rest of sentient beings. All other sentient beings are countless, while you are just one person. Your suffering and happiness may be very important, but it is just the suffering and happiness of one individual, whereas the happiness and suffering of all other sentient beings is immeasurable and countless. So, it is the way of the wise to sacrifice one for the benefit of the majority and it is the way of the foolish to sacrifice the majority on behalf of just one single individual. Even from the point of view of your personal well-being, you must cultivate a compassionate mind—that is that source of happiness in your life.

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