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See Good Intentions

November 25, 2012
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November 25, 2012

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See Good Intentions

Let your intentions be good – embodied in good thoughts, cheerful words, and unselfish deeds – and the world will be to you a bright and happy place in which to work and play and serve.

– Grenville Kleiser quotes –

See Good Intentions

“Recognizing the positive intentions in others, we feel safer, more supported, and happier. And when others feel that you get their good intentions, they feel seen, appreciated, and more inclined to treat you well. But it can be hard to recognize the goodwill in others. We’re busy and distracted and stressed. Positive aims are often buried beneath negative behaviors. The brain’s innate negativity bias is continually scanning for bad news, bad intentions. The brain also reacts to novelty, so it tends to ignore the many positive intentions that pervade most daily life while spotlighting the occasional negative ones. So you have to actively look for good intentions.” { read more }

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Knitting Behind Bars

November 24, 2012
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November 24, 2012

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Knitting Behind Bars

Properly practiced, knitting soothes the troubled spirit, and it doesn’t hurt the untroubled spirit either.

– Elizabeth Zimmermann –

Knitting Behind Bars

“The first warden Lynn Zwerling approached with her idea recoiled as if she might bite. The second wouldn’t meet with her. The third claimed to love the idea, then fell out of touch. Outrageous, said the fourth. The fifth, Margaret Chippendale, at a minimum-security men’s prison outside Baltimore, didn’t have much hope for Ms. Zwerling’s plan either. “She brought the program to me and told me: ‘Your inmates will get hooked. It will relax them, empower them,’ ” remembers Ms. Chippendale, a 40-year veteran of Maryland’s Department of Public Safety and Correctional Services. “And my gut reaction is: ‘Lynn, I’m always looking for ways to do that, but I’m not sure I’m going to get a bunch of big, macho guys to sit around a table and knit.’ ” { read more }

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Handmake a gift for someone this week.

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Quote of the Week | The Perfection of Wisdom

November 23, 2012

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November 23, 2012

THE PERFECTION OF WISDOM

How things appear and how they actually exist differ greatly. A person engaging in practice of the perfection of wisdom does this kind of analysis and then examines how things appear in ordinary experience, alternating analysis and comparison with the usual mode of appearance in order to notice the discrepancy between the actual mode of subsistence of phenomena and their appearance.

In this way the inherent existence which is the object of negation will become clearer and clearer. As much as the object of negation becomes clearer, so much deeper will your understanding of emptiness become. Finally, you will ascertain a mere vacuity that is a negative of inherent existence.

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Video of the Week: You Are Not Your Body

November 23, 2012
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Nov 23, 2012
You Are Not Your Body

You Are Not Your Body

We often define ourselves by things that are “outside” us: relationships, work, family – even our own bodies. But what would it mean to have your life dramatically altered and your body irrevocably damaged? Who would you be then? In this TEDx talk, walking paraplegic Janine Shepherd, explores the impact of loss on the human psyche and the universal quest to find meaning and fulfillment. It is only through the process of losing everything we thought we needed that we find who we truly are.
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Remembering What We Have Forgotten

November 23, 2012
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November 23, 2012

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Remembering What We Have Forgotten

We’re so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget the inner value. The rapture that is associated with being alive is what it is all about.

– Joseph Campbell –

Remembering What We Have Forgotten

Discovering the writings of Peter Kingsley (In the Dark Places of Wisdom, Reality and now A Story Waiting to Pierce You) reminded me of what a mystery it is to be alive. One is always forgetting this, especially in this era of science’s stupendous discoveries and the astonishing advance of techonology. It’s as if we have the power to figure everything out. Does this confidence in our knowledge stand in the way of feeling something that’s even deeper and more true? Listening to Peter Kingsley is like a wake-up call. { read more }

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20 Questions for Thanksgiving

November 22, 2012
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November 22, 2012

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20 Questions for Thanksgiving

Nothing that is done for you is a matter of course. Everything originates in a will for the good, which is directed at you. Train yourself never to put off the word or action for the expression of gratitude.

– Albert Schweitzer –

20 Questions for Thanksgiving

“It can be challenging to create rich and meaningful family conversations about gratitude. I know I’ve felt disappointed when my “What do you feel thankful for?” questions are met with quick, predictable responses that bring the conversation to a close soon after it’s begun. This Thanksgiving season, I’m taking a different approach by coming up with 20 gratitude questions to help enliven our sharing.” Karen Horneffer-Ginter shares her questions with readers here. { read more }

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Take a moment with family and friends today to reflect on the gratitude questions above, or perhaps a set of your own.

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The Danger of a Single Story

November 21, 2012
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November 21, 2012

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The Danger of a Single Story

Stories matter. Many stories matter. Stories have been used to dispossess and to malign. But stories can also be used to empower, and to humanize.

– Chimamanda Adichie –

The Danger of a Single Story

Growing up in Nigeria, author Chimamanda Adichie only read stories about blue-eyed British children, playing in the snow and eating apples. She loved these stories, but she could not connect to these stories. Growing up in an English-speaking former colony, Adichie nevertheless embraces Nigerian history and tradition to write critically acclaimed diasporan literature. Watch her discuss her own youth and the perceptions about Africa she had to overcome. { read more }

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Kindness Daily: Selling The Cowboy Caddy

November 20, 2012
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Selling The Cowboy Caddy November 20, 2012 – Posted by joesmith
My husband has always had a huge affection for older people and has helped out several elderly friends in the past, but this story is different!

Mr Daves fished the same lake as my husband John for over 15 years. A friendship developed but when Mrs Daves died, five years ago, it left Mr Daves alone. They had no children and after sixty years of marriage he was lost. So John took Mr Daves fishing with him every time he went – which was often. Mr. Daves was very energetic for 80 years old and never tired of being with John.

A few years later Mr Daves had a stroke that paralyzed his right side. He lost his speech and was put into a nursing home. Confined to his bed and unable to communicate Mr Daves began to suffer from depression. This almost broke John’s heart.

He finally got permission from the nursing home to take Mr Daves out for a ride. They were both excited to be together again but it was very painful for Mr Daves to be lifted into John’s truck. Because he was paralyzed on one side the weight of that side pulled heavily on his good side. John worried about this but still took him out about every ten days.

John had gotten his truck a year earlier and it was the truck of his dreams, a real cowboy Cadillac. He came home one day and announced he was selling it so we could buy a van that was equipped for a wheelchair. We researched these vehicles and found one which he bought. He did sell his truck and uses this van for his transportation. It isn’t sporty or fast but it sure eases Mr Daves pain on their outings and they both enjoy them so much more.

John has rigged up a special fishing rod that Mr Daves can use, so they still go fishing together. Even though Mr. Daves can’t talk, he has led the nursing home staff to believe John is his son.

Mr Daves is getting old now at 86 but is still enjoying life thanks to John. I don’t know anyone who would give up their prized possession to help a friend. I hope he can be an example for others to take similar steps to help those who are in need.

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Untrack: Letting Go of the Stress of Measuring

November 20, 2012
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Untrack: Letting Go of the Stress of Measuring

Each of us will one day be judged by our standard of life — not by our standard of living; by our measure of giving — not by our measure of wealth; by our simple goodness — not by our seeming greatness.

– William Arthur Ward –

Untrack: Letting Go of the Stress of Measuring

“There are a few old management adages that seem to run like a current through our society, powering our work and personal lives: “You can’t manage what you don’t measure” and “You are what you measure” and “You get what you measure”. And I’ve fallen for it myself. At various times, I’ve tracked workouts, miles run, everything I’ve eaten, every single work task I complete, progress towards goals, my weight, my body fat percentage… expenses, earnings, debt, website visitors, ad clicks, tweets, followers, and on and on. Sometimes I’ve tracked a few of these at the same time.” What if there was a better way? { read more }

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InnerNet Weekly: The Call

November 20, 2012
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The Call
by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

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tow2.jpgI have heard it all my life,

A voice calling a name I recognized as my own.

Sometimes it comes as a soft-bellied whisper.
Sometimes it holds an edge of urgency.
But always it says: Wake up, my love. You are walking asleep.
There’s no safety in that!

Remember what you are, and let a deeper knowing
color the shape of your humanness.
There is nowhere to go. What you are looking for is right here.
Open the fist clenched in wanting and see what you already hold in your hand.
There is no waiting for something to happen,
no point in the future to get to.

All you have ever longed for is here in this moment, right now.
You are wearing yourself out with all this searching.
Come home and rest.
How much longer can you live like this?

Your hungry spirit is gaunt, your heart stumbles. All this trying.
Give it up!
Let yourself be one of the God-mad,
faithful only to the Beauty you are.
Let the Lover pull you to your feet and hold you close,
dancing even when fear urges you to sit this one out.

Remember, there is one word you are here to say with your whole being.
When it finds you, give your life to it. Don’t be tight-lipped and stingy.
Spend yourself completely on the saying,
Be one word in this great love poem we are writing together.

–Oriah Mountain Dreamer

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