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Economics of Happiness: The New Economy

November 20, 2011

Gross National Product measures everything, except that which makes life worthwhile. — Robert Kennedy

~~~~ Good News of the Day: Many people are facing their most significant economic challenges in generations. From the hardships of unemployment to the perils of mounting debt, worry about the health of a national economy that depends on consumerism and market success dominates our conversation. But what is the economy is really for? “We’ve had enough of the official mantra: Work more, enjoy less, pollute more, eat toxic foods and suffer illnesses, all for the sake of increasing the gross domestic product. Why not learn ways to work less and enjoy it more; spend more time with our friends and families; consume, pollute, destroy and owe less; and live better, longer and more meaningfully? To do all this, we need fresh solutions,” say John De Graff and Linsa Sechrist in their article on Economics of Happiness. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169D249:C3009629A010612C40A9D2146157FE8BB4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: Explore research on well-being, at the New Economics Foundation. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169D24A:C3009629A010612C40A9D2146157FE8BB4B847859706E37D&

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A 15-yr-old Dog’s Gift

November 19, 2011

Life is the first gift, love is the second, and understanding the third. — Marge Piercy

~~~~ Inspiration of the Day: “I have the pleasure of meeting hundreds of incredible heroes, but this one caught me off guard. Your hair will stand on end as you read the story of this man and this dog who picked one another up time and time again: ‘I saw in the front yard what appeared to be a very old dog that was in obvious distress. He would walk in a semi-circle, then fall to the ground, then struggle back to his feet and do it again. I saw him do this same thing at least three times as I walked over to him. This was to be by far my easiest rescue because this poor old boy was in no shape to run from me, but also the most heartbreaking.'” Laura Simpson, a tireless advocate for animals, shares a touching story of Roadie, the 15-yr old dog, and his gift to a grieving man. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169D185:C3009629A010612C7DE90C62A2EE9E6FB4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: The next time you are a little down, do an act of service — it might just be the gift you need.

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Dalai Lama Quote from Snow Lion Publications

November 18, 2011

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Dalai Lama Quote of the Week

In day to day life if you lead a good life, honestly, with love, with compassion, with less selfishness, then automatically it will lead to nirvana….We must implement these good teachings in daily life. Whether you believe in God or not does not matter so much; whether you believe in Buddha or not does not matter so much; as a Buddhist, whether you believe in reincarnation or not does not matter so much. You must lead a good life.

And a good life does not mean just good food, good clothes, good shelter. These are not sufficient. A good motivation is what is needed: compassion, without dogmatism, without complicated philosophy; just understanding that others are human brothers and sisters and respecting their rights and human dignity. That we humans can help each other is one of our unique human capacities. We must share in other peoples’ suffering; even if you cannot help with money, to show concern, to give moral support and express sympathy are themselves valuable. This is what should be the basis of activities; whether one calls it religion or not does not matter…. In my simple religion, love is the key motivation.(p.20)

–from Kindness, Clarity, and Insight 25th Anniversary Edition by The Fourteenth Dalai Lama, His Holiness Tenzin Gyatso, edited and translated by Jeffrey Hopkins, co-edited by Elizabeth Napper, published by Snow Lion Publications

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Video of the Week: Young Leader of Rural India

November 18, 2011
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Multivariate Bridges and Metaphysical Mangoes

November 18, 2011

How can I be useful, of what service can I be? There is something inside me, what can it be? — Vincent Van Gogh

~~~~ Inspiration of the Day: “Last weekend, my friend Nimo came to the group with a problem. On the main pathway between a slum and the nonprofit Manav Sadhna (MS), a stream had built up due to the persistent rain we’ve been getting lately. The issue was that kids from the slum trying to get to MS had to cross the stream daily or more with no proper way to walk, and between the water’s filthiness and the pressure it was rushing with, it was becoming a dangerous situation. Rumor even had it that one kid had climbed a parallel drinking water pipeline to cross the stream and had fallen from a considerable height. So our Sunday project was to go down to the stream and fashion together a safe walkway across the water.” What follows is an honest reflection on exploring service in action. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169CD03:C3009629A010612CB8CEDC76D3053873B4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: See something that needs to be done for the common good, but has no takers? Give it a shot and see what you learn.

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Dharma Quote from Snow Lion Publications

November 18, 2011

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Dharma Quote of the Week

All attachment and aversion come from what we have mentally created. We have made an image and that is our mind as we normally experience it. In order to solve this problem in a more profound and permanent way, we have to look at our mind and see its true nature. In our innate, unfabricated nature, which is the basic state of our mind, there is no problem. We make all our problems by creating concepts and all kinds of mental conditioning.

Seeing the true nature of mind means experiencing the way the mind is when we do not fabricate and contrive anything. We need to look at our mind when it is devoid of our creations and free from mental elaborations. If we can see this state of mind, there is no grasping, no grasped object, and no subject doing the grasping. There is simply perception or seeing, which in itself does not cause a problem.

When the true nature of mind is seen, there are just appearances without any evaluation. One thing arises in the mind and then another thing arises. The arising that is pleasant is no better than the one that is unpleasant. They are simply different manifestations of the mind. There is no need to grasp one and reject the other. Once this is seen clearly, we see the true nature of mind. This is something that we need to experience directly. When we see the truth, we become liberated from our struggle within the nets of aversion and attachment.(p.97)

–from Daring Steps: Traversing the Path of the Buddha by Ringu Tulku, edited and translated by Rosemarie Fuchs, published by Snow Lion Publications

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Kindness Daily: Practicing a Little Patience

November 17, 2011
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Practicing a Little Patience November 17, 2011 – Posted by Aurelia
I work at night in a department store. Yesterday I had a customer come to my register to order socks from our catalog. It seemed pretty clear and easy to me, but she was struggling to figure out how many 3packs she needed to order. She apologized for being so confused and told me she had a head trauma and it was taking time for her to think.

I told her not to worry and we would figure it out together. She pulled out paper and wrote down 3 and then put numbers in groups….it was really something how she worked hard to figure out 3 x 4 = 12. That she needed 12 pairs, which was 4 packs…which I could have just told her, but I could see she needed to figure it out and feel good about it.

In the meantime, her husband showed up and she lost her train of thought. It took about 10 minutes to place her order, but she left feeling really good about herself and her husband thanked me profusely.

Sometimes it’s hard to show patience, but it really pays off.

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Stillpower: A Path to Flow, Clarity, and Responsiveness

November 17, 2011

True change isn’t willful. It’s so fluent and intuitive that we don’t even realize it happened. — Garrett Kramer

~~~~ Tip of the Day: Sports guru and author Garret Kramer has a unique theory about what separates great performers. Kramer believes that the classic ‘grind it out’ mentality that we’re taught at a young age actually prevents athletes from realizing their potential — and he’s betting it’s impacting your performance at work, too. His insights led him to write a book: ‘Stillpower: The Inner Source of Athletic Excellence.’ In his words: “I truly believe the finest competitors in every sport, or in life, play the game with what I call stillpower not with willpower. This understanding is key to success. What I mean is that despite the desire to win, these competitors remain open to all possible outcomes; win or lose, they know they’ll be perfectly okay. What arises out of this is a level of consciousness that lets them excel.” http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169CBED:C3009629A010612C438EB8BC5D11EE2EB4B847859706E37D&

~~~~ Be The Change: The next time you need to perform well, try engaging your ‘stillpower’ instead of your willpower.

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Students Stepping Up the Kindness

November 16, 2011

When you learn, teach. When you get, give. — Maya Angelou

~~~~ Good News of the Day: How amazing would it be to start the first day of school receiving random acts of kindness from your fellow students? Last year, a hundred students at Kansas State huddled early in the morning to see just how they could pool their time, money and creativity to surprise (and even shock!) their fellow students with unexpected generosity. From a welcome applause to paying for meals to wowing a driver with parallel park assistance, this is a short video that’ll make you smile. http://premiere.whatcounts.com/t?ctl=169C96F:C3009629A010612C8F6D08858D5CD8E1B4B847859706E37D&

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Kindness Daily: Running To The Record Shop

November 15, 2011
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Running To The Record Shop November 15, 2011 – Posted by RMB333
Many years ago I was on vacation in Tilehurst, a beautiful little village in Reading, in the U.K.

I was with my sister and her family and it was my first trip to the West. Having been born and brought up in the East I had to get used to the English accent which sounded quite diferent to ‘our’ way of speaking.

I enjoyed walking in and around Tilehurst. It was a typical English village; elderly ladies walking out with lovely hats, their husband with their walking sticks, reminding me of the English films we had watched as kids back home.

In Tilehurst the main mode of public transport was a single little "Shuttle" bus which ran from Tilehurst to Reading. There was no need for more as every family owned either one or two vehicles. Being October the Autumn weather was lovely and comortable which encouraged me to go out. I would help all these plump old ladies (I was in my early 20s then) to get into the coach then I would carry on walking down the road.

A good distance down the road stood a row of little shops (there were NO super markets in Tilehurst then.) It was such a peaceful and a clean environment! I enjoyed every minute living of being there.

Even with my Eastern accent I managed to get shopping done. My sister and family would take me to Reading town on Saturdays or, at end of the month, to London!

Time passed and Christmas was round the corner. Every shop had their Christmas Sales on. I walked to the row of small shops and read a sign that said "Old Records at Half Price While Stocks Last!" Though I was not old then I prefered old songs to new!

For the Easterner the dark and chilly evenings felt just wonderful! But, back home we were never permitted to go out alone in the dark and it was getting late. Having bought a dozen "Golden Oldies" at half price and half a dozen new songs, a total of 18 records, I started on my return journey.

I was rushing, but even as I hurried I realised that the elderly lady in the record shop had miscalculated! In utter confusion I got home in the dark. Seated on my bed I started adding up my purchases. I was right and she was wrong!

I wanted to run back immediately before it was too late! I couldn’t ask my sister (who had two kids on her hands) to drive me down. Her husband was at work later than normal so he couldn’t take me! I had no option. I left the house and ran for the record shop. I have never run so fast, ever!

As I was taking the last turn, a few yards away, I could see the shop door closing! But I didn’t stop. I could see the lady through the glass.

She came to the door and pointed to the "CLOSED" sign, but I would not move till she opened the door. She grumbled that it was getting late as she opened the door and I could tell she was very annoyed!

I placed all the records, the balance and the receipt on her table and showed her my arithmetic. She put her hands in the air and was about to say something in a loud voice when her eyes caught the correct balance written on my paper. She read it aloud – then run around the counter to me with open arms. She hugged me and said "Oh, thank you for being so honest! You are an angel!" There were tears rolling down her cheeks!

After few minutes she explained that if I hadn’t returned the difference that evening the owner would have deducted that sum from her wages the next day!

I returned home carrying not only the records but a very light heart. It didn’t bother me in the slightest that it was dark and chilly!

My mind flashed back to my childhood days when my parents always said – (1) Never cheat. and (2) Never postpone what has to be done. Do it now!!

I was in the seventh heaven knowing that elederly lady would have her complete salary and she too would sleep well! Now I am an elderly lady and when I walk down my memory lane to Tilehurst peace and contentment just fill my heart!

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